Okay I'm like super pissed off today.
She just seem to have to disagree with everything I say and do! Like she didn't not attempt understanding how much I have to spend trying to work that script out! I promised helping out, not taking complete responsibility. Yet I end up having to edit the entire thing myself. I'm not blaming anyone for this (not blaming you, Nic). Then there are a few difficult people who just wouldn't agree with it (not refering to you, Sam).
Like right, it's MY FAULT for not having come up with the script earlier! It MY FAULT for not having collected the scripts earlier. It MY FAULT for not having the initiative to arrange the dates (not blaming you, Florence). It MY FAULT for not being able to read people's minds! IS IT MY FAULT?! Don't you have any responsibility?! I'm sorry for not being able to come up with anything sooner. I'm sorry for being soooo irresponsible.
Like thanks for soooo supportive, by sacarstically agreeing with me.
People enjoy having things done their way. But they can't always have that done. No matter how popular you are, how well-known you are, or how much of a suck-up you are. You have to give way sometimes. Just because others do not think like you does not mean they're wrong. Just because others do not have the same idea as you does not mean theirs is not as creative as yours.
A smile, a remark, a word, a phrase, a letter, can make a difference. Thanks for making mine. My day, probably week, is RUINED!
3 comments:
hey, dun let this crap ruin your day.
If they are really being unreasonable, just voice it out. point every unfair point out. If they go overboard, then make simple threats. it usually works. once you got them listening to you, then reason out everything.
If you know that they wont ever listen anyway, just dont let them get to you. Know that it is not your fault and dun care what they say. As long as u know its not all because of you then thats all. Then slowly think it over, then reason with yourself. keep thinking about it until you cool down. Then you would have fit yourself to the new reasoning, then you can continue work.
At most, just call for help. your friends are there
Hey thanks Eugene.
But what if this person has more power than you? Like your boss?
Then reason it out.
Even if it is your boss, he would still have a reason to be doing this to you, find out this reason, then give your own reason. If that person has a reason that you think is valid to you, then you should do your part and finish your job. The reason that person gives would be your motivation.
Yet, if you go not accept the reason, then say why. Keep probing. tell that person why is this so, and clear things up.
Remember, no person is heartless, everyone will listen in one way or other, you just need to give them a reason to. Hope this helps :)
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